The most valuable thing

Here is a great story about a young man who learns what’s most important in life from the guy next door.

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, “Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday.” Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.

“Jack, did you hear me?” “Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It’s been so long since I thought of him. I’m sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,” Jack said.

“Well, he didn’t forget you. Every time I saw him he’d ask how you were doing. He’d reminisce about the many days you spent over ‘his side of the fence’ as he put it,” Mom told him.

“I loved that old house he lived in,” Jack said. “You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man’s influence in your life,” she said.

“He’s the one who taught me carpentry,” he said. “I wouldn’t be in this business if it weren’t for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important…Mom, I’ll be there for the funeral,” Jack said.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser’s funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.

Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time. The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture….Jack stopped suddenly.

“What’s wrong, Jack?” his Mom asked. “The box is gone,” he said. “What box? “ Mom asked. “There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he’d ever tell me was ‘the thing I value most,’” Jack said.

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.

“Now I’ll never know what was so valuable to him,” Jack said. “I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.”

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. “Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days,” the note read.

Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old, and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention.

“Mr. Harold Belser” it read.

Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack’s hands shook as he read the note inside.

“Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It’s the thing I valued most in my life.” A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover.

Inside he found these words engraved: “Jack, Thanks for your time! – Harold Belser.”

“The thing he valued most…was…my time.”

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office, and cleared his appointments for the next two days. “Why?” Janet, his assistant asked. “I need some time to spend with my son,” he said. “Oh, by the way, Janet…thanks for your time!”

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Life too much to handle ?

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, When 24 Hours in a day is not enough, Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students, if the jar was full? They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided,

  • I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
  • The golf balls are the important things – family, children, health, friends, and favorite passions – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
  • The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.
  • The sand is everything else — The small stuff.

“If you put the sand into the jar first,” He continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, You will never have room for the things that are important to you. So… Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play With your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.

Take care of the golf balls first -the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled.

“I’m glad you asked”. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.”

From Gordon Mackay

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If I Have Learned Anything

  • I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes.  After that, you’d better know something.
  • I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.
  • I’ve learned that it’s not what happens to people that’s important.  It’s what they do about it.
  • I’ve learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life.
  • I’ve learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
  • I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you miss them terribly after they die.
  • I’ve learned that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
  • I’ve learned that it’s a lot easier to react than it is to think.
  • I’ve learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
  • It may be the last time you see them.
  • I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you think you can’t.
  • I’ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
  • I’ve learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
  • I’ve learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
  • I’ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done, when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
  • I’ve learned that when the light turns green, you had better look both ways before proceeding.
  • I’ve learned that you can love someone and still not like them very much.
  • I’ve learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don’t know how to show it.
  • I’ve learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and still have the best time.
  • I’ve learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.
  • I’ve learned that I’m getting more and more like my mom, and I’m kind of happy about it.
  • I’ve learned that sometimes when I’m angry, I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.
  • I’ve learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.
  • I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
  • I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.
  • I’ve learned that you should never tell a child his dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if he believed it.
  • I’ve learned that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.
  • I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they’re going to hurt you every once in awhile and you must forgive them for that.
  • I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
  • I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn’t stop for your grief.
  • I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
  • I’ve learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I’m forced to choose sides even when I don’t want to.
  • I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.
  • I’ve learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.
  • I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
  • I’ve learned that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
  • I’ve learned that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
  • I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your life but whom you have in your life that counts.
  • I’ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
  • I’ve learned that a good friend is better than a therapist.
  • I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
  • I’ve learned that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings and standing up for what you believe.
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You are closer than you know…

“I may not be there yet, but I’m closer than I was yesterday.” – Author Unknown

We often forget how far we have come on the road to our goals. All we seem to see is what we have not yet achieved. Then we get frustrated and perhaps discouraged because we still have not accomplished.

But remember how far you have come, what you have learnt and how you have grown as a person through the process.

We often forget that the personal growth is super important. If you don’t have the personal growth, which develops during the challenges, you won’t ever achieve your goals. You are closer than you realize.

Look back at what you have become in the process of working towards your goals.

Taken from the Be Motivated Today daily newsletter.

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Live Each Day to the Fullest

Here is some wisdom, I know you will appreciate.

Live Each Day to the Fullest

Live each day to the fullest. Get the most from each hour,
each day, and each age of your life. Then you can look forward
with confidence and back without regrets. Be yourself, but be
your best self. Dare to be different and to follow your star. And
don’t be afraid to be happy. Enjoy what is beautiful. Love with
all your heart and soul. Believe that those whom you love, love
you. Forget what you have done for your friends, and
remember what they have done for you. Disregard what the
world owes you, and concentrate on what you owe the world.
When you are faced with a decision, make that decision as
wisely as possible—then forget it. The moment of absolute certainty
never arrives. Above all, remember that God helps those
who help themselves. Act as if everything depended on you and
pray as if everything depended on God.

Author Unknown

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